By Chris Osa Nehikhare
There are some people you meet in life not because you always agree with them, but because your convictions repeatedly place you on opposite sides of the same argument. Over time, those disagreements can grow into mutual respect and, sometimes, genuine friendship.
That was my relationship with Bishop Osadolor Ochei.
We had many encounters over the years. He was a passionate and fearless advocate for Christians, particularly those living in our rural communities. He believed strongly that no citizen should be compelled to observe customs or traditions that conflicted with his or her faith. Whenever he perceived intimidation or oppression, he never hesitated to raise his voice.
In Evboehighae, in Orhionmwon local government, our most frequent engagements came during the annual Ekaba Festival. Year after year, tensions would arise over issues such as the “work-free” or “no farm” days observed during the festival. Many indigenous people believed that everyone residing in the community, regardless of religious belief, owed the community respect by observing these traditional practices. Bishop Ochei, on the other hand, passionately defended the rights of Christians who felt otherwise.
Those were not easy conversations. At times they were intense, emotional and difficult. Yet, as the years passed, something remarkable happened. Instead of allowing conflict to define us, we learnt from each other. Together, we gradually developed a template and protocol for resolving the inevitable post-Ekaba disputes peacefully. Dialogue slowly replaced confrontation, and understanding began to replace suspicion.
Looking back today, I realise that beyond the debates and differing viewpoints was a man of deep conviction. Bishop Ochei genuinely detested oppression in whatever form he perceived it. He consistently stood with those he believed were vulnerable and never lacked the courage to challenge authority when his conscience demanded it.
He wore many hats – Bishop, civil society advocate, human rights activist – and he wore each with passion and commitment.
We did not always agree, but I always respected his sincerity. Our disagreements never diminished the esteem I had for him as a man who fought for what he believed was right. In a society where too many people remain silent, Bishop Osadolor Ochei chose to speak.
Today, Edo State has lost a distinctive voice, and many have lost a courageous defender.
May God comfort his family, his church and all who mourn him. May He also grant Bishop Osadolor Ochei eternal rest.
Farewell, Bishop. You fought your battles with conviction. May you now find the peace that eluded so many of us in those earthly debates.